The Vasopressin Takeover
Evan of Two Puppies Enter, One Puppy Leaves posted a link to a BBC science podcast in which scientists explain that three years after the birth of a child, oxytocin receptors in the parents' brains wane, while vasopressin becomes more prevalent.
I don't have time to listen to the podcast or follow up on the journal articles right now, but according to his blog post, Lucy Vincent (neurobiologist at the French Scientific Research Center) and Dave Perrett (Professor of Psychology at the University of St. Andrews) said that
after 12-18 months the infant becomes significantly less vulnerable (able to stand and perhaps throw off a bird or small animal attacking it), at which point only one parent would be necessary. And at that point, the oxytocin effect more or less ceases, yielding to increased vasopressin receptor activity- essentially a biochemical foundation for why people tend to “fall out of love” after a few years
I think maybe they were talking about the male brain, not the female's.
Motherhood and fatherhood both change a person's brain; changes in the mother's brain have been shown to be permanent in rats. However, oxytocin receptors, which become profuse during pregnancy, may disappear and/or become less sensitive.
Vasopressin, which is very closely related to oxytocin, may be more involved in male attachment, and lead to the expression of this attachment in protective behaviors. If you have the time, his post and the podcast are probably worth checking out.

Important question: was it the female brain? Was she breastfeeding? Breastfeeding activates oxytocin and perhaps, in an evolutionary sense, tells the mother's brain that there is still a young, vulnerable child to care for a defend. This woudl likley alter and influence AVP/vasopressin activity. Thanks for this link, I'll listen to the podcast.
Posted by: Sarah Buckley | April 01, 2008 at 07:01 PM
I'm so honored that you commented on my blog, Sarah. (Sarah Buckley is a wonderful writer, thinker and leader of the natural birth movement.)
It sounded to me like she was talking about the relationship between the parents. I'd love to know what you think after you listen.
Posted by: Susan Kuchinskas | April 01, 2008 at 09:11 PM