Cud-dle! Cud-dle!
Mike and I are finally going to a Cuddle Party tomorrow. There are structured, pajama-clad snuggle sessions. Here was our conversation while cuddled up on Valentine's Day:
Him: I hope no men try to cuddle with me.
Me: You don't have to cuddle with anyone you don't want to.
Him: What if a man wants to cuddle with you?
Me: I'll decide when it happens.
Him: I don't want you to cuddle with another man.
Me: You don't get to decide that.
Him: You're supposed to honor your agreements with your partner. (Gee, he read the FAQ!)
Me: We haven't made any agreements about the cuddle party.
Him: We have an agreement to be monogamous.
Me: I don't plan to have sex with anyone at the party.
Him: Cuddling is sex.
Aieeeeeee.
There is such a wealth of nuance and information about the differences between the sexes when it comes to love and sex, that I"m going to let this stand without comment.

Susan,
Just tried to write to you but the e-mail bounced back! Congrats!
Where can I get some of that oxytocin?
Posted by: Tobi | February 19, 2006 at 03:14 PM